“Love Bug” by Oakley Martin

4 Mar 11 by | 2 Comments | 44 view(s)
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It was a Monday evening, and I had just gotten home from school.  Now I was tromping up the stairs to my room.  I got upstairs and sat on my window seat.  Something cracked under the seat of pants!  I practically jumped up and out of my pants.  Who would expect something to crack under the seat of their pants when they sat down?!  The answer is NOBODY!  So, I quickly came back to my senses and slowly turned around.  There sat a crushed ladybug without one of his wings.  I let out a relieved sigh of old, cooped up breath.  Then there rose the other ladybug wing.  ”Whoa!” I said.  Then, it tickled me under the chin.  I laughed.  I sure hoped this was over.  Then the ladybug came back together and lived hap-bug-ly ever after.

Oakley Martin
February 2011

Mr. Peppy Businessman

31 Jan 11 by | No Comments | 102 view(s)
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This morning, before I left for work, I said goodbye to Oakley.  She responded with an upturned, “Okay!”.  And so, of course, I mocked her, responding with equal pep.  I mean, that is my job as her father, right?

We went our separate ways for the day; me to work, Oakley to school.  Tonight, after the girls were in bed, I got to see two pretty funny things.  First, Oakley’s steno, which includes a daily note from Oakley, written during school.

 

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You really do want to read this…

Rezoning

21 Sep 10 by | 4 Comments | 121 view(s)
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My children go to Williamson County Schools. For the most part, we’re happy. Last Friday, the public was made aware of a broad rezoning proposal. This week, everyone (well, those affected) is going crazy about it. Since so many people are loudly stating their objection to the rezoning, I feel like I must publish my thoughts on the topic.

First, some context. We live in a little bit of a weird spot… 5 years ago, our first daughter, Aspen, got started at Edmonson Elementary. 3 years ago, we were rezoned to Lipscomb Elementary. Our experiences have been good. I’ve talked about some magical teachers on a few occasions. And now, in this latest proposal, we are being rezoned again, this time to Crockett Elementary. Do you know what my reaction is?

OK. Let’s go.

I have a huge problem with parents/groups/neighborhoods whose argument is simply, “You should move them, not me.” Yes, rezoning is inconvenient. It’s a little unnerving. Aspen had to leave her great friend Cassie behind at Edmondson. When rezoning came up again last week, she and Oakley were inquisitive. But we talked through it with them, and they’re prepared for whatever comes. Rezoning can be dealt with.

In making a decision like this, I think it’s fundamentally important to consider the collective good, not just your own position. Many people have complained about the frequent and repeated rezoning. I can understand that, and I can specifically relate to it. It is my opinion, though, that piecemeal rezoning of the past is precisely why rezoning is happening so regularly. Communities complain, the school board relents, and then they’re forced to reconsider zoning every year.

I’m quite certain that each and every reader of this blog has had to reboot their computer a time or two. The school board tried to make a small fix last year, a community objected and asked for more time. Well, this year, I think the school board is looking to “reboot” the zoning, and I think they’re right to do it. It’s time to get the foundation of the zoning straightened out.

The school board asked a company with expertise in this specific area to solve the problem as best they could. They asked them to take a long view. And this proposal is what they came up with. We can argue about the parameters of the problem… (Personally, I think feeder schools should have been a requirement, and not optional. I don’t love that my daughters’ elementary school will be split come middle school.) We can also argue about the logic of certain aspects of the solution. (Have they really minimized average distance to school across the population? I bet they’ve done quite well on that.) But I don’t think arguing that “we shouldn’t have to move” really holds water.

I have one further concern. I read today in the Brentwood Homepage that the board is going to “apply local knowledge” to the proposal. Frankly, that sounds slimy to me. What does “local knowledge” mean? Why should one community’s desire to stay at a certain school override the desires of another community? I know it sounds draconian, but I think the board would be better off to sequester themselves, question the logic of the proposal, and then decide for it. I suspect that the school board members will cost themselves reelection, but some school board, at some point, will have to make things right… And I think now is the right time to “reboot” the zoning, or rip off the band-aid, or whatever. Let’s just get on with it.

Lastly, much credit goes to Jenn here… The attitude you take with your kids on this will have a massive impact. If you are accepting and reasonable, your kids will be too. If you believe it’s a disaster, then they will too. Think about your attitude starting right now, ’cause I’m guessing a lot of you are headed to new elementary schools in about 11 months.

“The Call of the Bird”, by Oakley Martin

12 Aug 10 by | 5 Comments | 80 view(s)
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Jenn found this story and others in Oakley’s school bag tonight.  She had torn them out of her notebook from the summer and placed them in an envelope titled, “Short Stories for School”, by Oakley Rhea Martin.

I’ve captured it precisely as she wrote it…

“Caw, Caw, Caw,” the crow flew up into a pine tree up high.  Oh, how those three girls loved nature.  But best of all they loved birds.  But maybe they didn’t like it when the birds ate their blueberries.  That was just kind of upseting.  The oldest sister, Aspen loved how beautiful and shiny the wings were.  Oakley, who was the middle sister, loved how swift they were in flight.  Lindy, who was the youngest sister, loved how beautiful the birds eggs were, for example the light turquiose blue of the robins egg.  One day, the 3 girls heard a female and male cardinal chirping a song.  Then the three sisters knew what they had to do.  They had to keep birds in their hearts forever.  Keep nature exist in the world.  The cardinals had sent a message to keep them them birds and whole safe.

Keep the Birds!

the end

Oakley’s First Grade Year

22 May 10 by | 2 Comments | 45 view(s)
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Every teacher should have to create a video summarizing their year, right? I mean, why wouldn’t they, what with everything else they have to do at year’s end?

Well, the incomparable Miss Drury did just that for her kids, and she shared it with us at their final publishing party. You get to hear the kids talk about the things they’ve learned including the techniques and concepts… complete with some words you may not know.

If you’d like to skip ahead to hear Oakley’s bit, you can click right here. Otherwise, enjoy the video in its entirety.

Oakley’s Letters

9 May 10 by | 7 Comments | 96 view(s)
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I know I’ve been hyping Oakley a lot lately, but there’s just a lot of good stuff going on. (Aspen and Lindy have their moments too, but they haven’t been translating to the blog as well as Oakley’s. Incidentally, Aspen voluntarily helped me clean out the whole basement from the flood today, which was pretty awesome.)

But, back to Oakley’s letters… I’ll just share them verbatim. They’re that good.

Read the letters

Oakley’s First Grade Year – Coming to a Close

3 May 10 by | 2 Comments | 46 view(s)
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Oakley has had a brilliant first grade year. Literally, brilliant. Credit can go to many… her school has served he so well this year, her teacher, well, we’ve talked about that… and her mom is OK, too.

I’ve got two things to share… first, as video. Oakley’s school play took place last week, and her school deserves a lot of credit for doing these things right. All of the kids get their moment to shine, it’s fun, it’s brief, I even enjoy going. That’s an accomplishment.

So, enjoy Three of a Kind, including Oakley’s muscles and her trio…

Read on for some of Oakley’s most recent writings

Oakley’s Haiku

29 Apr 10 by | 2 Comments | 79 view(s)
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Oakley wrote a haiku at school (ok, 2 haikus). I’m guessing it was an assignment in her class, from her teacher, but who am I to know. She brought it home tonight.

Haiku #1

I love my mommy
My mommy is wonderful!!
I love my mommy

Keep reading…

Miss Drury… in Oakley’s words

4 Mar 10 by | 4 Comments | 155 view(s)
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Last night, I decided that I wanted to try something new with the camera. You see, our SLR actually has the ability to do high def video, and I’ve never used it to great effect. So, I told Oakley that I wanted to try something. She said she was willing, but that she really wanted to record Lindy more… So, we did that too.

Ultimately, though, I just sat Oakley down at the island, turned on the camera, and recorded. You can hear Lindy goofing off… Then I asked Oakley to tell me about herself. She does so briefly, but then she takes the conversation somewhere different. She decides to talk about Miss Drury, her 1st grade teacher.

Now, I’ve told many of you about Miss Drury on the blog and elsewhere. This, however, is Oakley’s unfettered, unrehearsed, uncensored opinion of her teacher.

Now, I believe that Miss Drury reads this blog from time to time. I thought about saving this… I thought about sparing her the embarrassment. But then I reconsidered. Teachers, especially great ones, have to be lauded… publicly. So, Miss Drury, I hope that you carry this close to your heart forever.

Click through to watch Oakley talk… and to learn about her issues with fractions… and cake.

A Budding Writer

10 Feb 10 by | 2 Comments | 60 view(s)
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Like other 1st grade students, Oakley was asked to complete a writing assessment sometime in the last couple of weeks. This is something they write at school in which they are encouraged to use all of their writing tools. I think Oakley comes with a truckload…

My favorite snowy day activity is sledding. I like sledding because sledding makes me feel like I am soaring down a massive hill with very swift and jerkey moments. Another thing I like to do is sip hot chocolate. Sipping hot chocolate makes me feel all warm and toasty inside. It makes me feel like I do when someone I love is surounding me. Hot chocolate makes me feel spectacular. When hot chocolate has marshmellows with it the hot chocolate makes feel even better. I also like building snowmen. The chilly snow on my fingertips makes me remember how fortanate we are to be having this much snow. It is so fun to roll the snow balls all different sizes. I wonder how many cinemeters it takes to get across the bottom sphere. Finnaly when I am on the last object I know every time that I am going to be satisfied with my snowman. When I am finished, I make sure that I have added every single part. Then I stand back to admire it. Sometimes I might say its to big. Sometimes I say its just right. And sometimes I might say, “Its to small. I will make it bigger next time!” I positivly love snowy winter days! I love playing in the snow, hot chocolate with marshmellows, and last but not least, building snowmen. I wish the whole world was of snow.

I have it on pretty good authority that this would have been a good writing assessment for a 5th grader… How awesome is Oakley!?